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What Are The Causes of a
Marriage Breakdown?
"Yes, until death do us part"
are the words spoken by many
couples to concrete their love
for each other. But, once
spoken, there are many forces
that try to bring down the
illusion of love forever.
So, what is the worst enemy of a
marriage? Telenoticias,
the channel 7 news team took a
street poll of Costa Ricans who
in the majority say
"misunderstanding" and "lack of
communication" are the major
issues for a married couple.
Psychologists say communication
is the basis of a good
relationship, however knowing
how to communicate is key. Some
use silent to communicate their
feelings, while others break the
dishes to express their
unhappiness. Finding the right
way to communicate is vital to
healthy relationship, experts
say.
Every couple has differences. It
is these differences that can
make a marriage strong. But, not
knowing how to resolve the
differences or at least
communicate, is what presents
the problem.
More and more Costa Rican
couples are turning to violence
to resolve their conflicts. And
more, authorities are worried,
as in the case Francisco, the
two year old boy shot by his
father, the children are
becoming the victims, as the
couple take out their
frustrations and vengeance on
them.
The Telenoticias street
poll found "six" enemies that a
marriage confronts:
- Lack of communication
- The inability to resolve
conflicts
- Money
- The intimate part of the
relationship is not fulfilling
- Not being able to say ask for
forgiveness
- And not being able to forgive
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