|
LATIN AMERICA: Everyone Pays for Domestic
Violence
By Marcela Valente
BUENOS AIRES (IPS) - After 26 years raising
three children in an economically
comfortable marriage, Dora finally
understood that staying with her husband
meant "choosing death." "I had to lock
myself into my daughter’s room at night for
fear that he would hit me with a baseball
bat while I slept," she told IPS.
At the beginning, the mistreatment was
verbal and so subtle that she didn’t even
realise that she was a victim of
psychological abuse. While her husband
became more and more successful, she took
care of the house and raised the kids. "He
questioned my desire to study, my dreams; he
criticised my family, my friends, and
isolated me from everyone," she said.
According to statistics provided by the
United Nations Development Programme (UNDP)
regional director for Latin America and the
Caribbean, Rebeca Grynspan, between 30 and
45 percent of women in the region suffer
some form of physical, sexual or
psychological violence.
The cost of that violence in Latin America
and the Caribbean is equivalent to two
percent of GDP on average, said the
official.
Impact on state coffers
Ana Falú, director of the U.N. Development
Fund for Women (UNIFEM) in Brazil and the
Southern Cone region, told IPS that a more
reliable estimate of the costs is needed,
but that the impact on different areas is
far from negligible.
For example, the costs are felt in the
criminal justice system, special training
for police and special police units,
maintenance of shelters, medical care,
social services, education and prevention.
Women’s organisations want this impact to
become more visible, in order to demonstrate
that everyone pays for domestic violence.
"We are talking about the costs of the
judicial procedures that arise from domestic
violence cases, the demand for health
services for the victims, and the labour
impact, because days of work are lost," said
Falú.
But the important thing is that because of
violence against women, "society as a whole
loses resources and skills that should be at
the service of development," without
counting the "intangible costs" in the
future – the children who grow up in homes
where "machista" rage and violence are the
norm, she said.
The slogan for International Women’s Day –
Mar. 8 - this year is "Women and men united
to end violence against women and girls".
Dora’s story
The first thing Dora, 47, did when she left
home two years ago was to call the
government hotline for domestic abuse
victims. She remembers crying for an hour
straight, unable to speak, and only able to
listen to the woman who was helping her on
the other end of the line.
From there, she was referred to group
treatment with other women in similar
situations, and to individual therapy. Once
she realised that her life was in danger if
she stayed with her husband, she received
legal support from the state.
"What prompted me to make the call was
seeing that my 17-year-old son already had
really violent reactions, which is the worst
thing – seeing that your kids have learned
the same behaviour. My son insulted me, and
instead of scolding him, his father
laughed," said Dora, who in spite of
everything was able to "start a new life."
"In the group there are women from all walks
of life, there are even psychologists and
lawyers," which surprised her when she
joined. "Many say they stay at home because
of the kids, but for them that’s worse. My
12-year-old daughter helped me pack when I
left, because she saw her father chase me
with a baseball bat."
When Dora left home, her husband tried to
keep her from taking anything with her. "He
told me that he had paid for everything we
owned."
Dora, who went back to school, said her
husband’s violence moved on from verbal to
physical when she began to set out on a
career of her own. "For being myself, he
said I had betrayed him."
Now she is a "psycho-corporal consultant"
who works on a team with psychologists and
psychiatrists as part of a network that
provides free assistance to people who
suffer from anxiety disorders, the "Red
Sanar" (Healing Network).
"I don’t have the same living standards
anymore, but I’m happy, I’m studying, I try
to be independent, I have friends, I can
invite my family to my home," she said.
In an interview with IPS, Sonia Stegman,
coordinator of the six Integral Women’s
Centres that deal with cases of domestic
violence in the city of Buenos Aires,
explained that the helpline that Dora called
works 24/7, 365 days out of the year.
After the initial emergency is addressed,
the women are referred to the centres, where
they receive free psychological and legal
assistance. Abuse victims facing a risk to
their lives can go to battered women
shelters, and there are four homes where the
women can live for one or two years, to help
them get back on their feet.
Provincial governments have also set up
helplines and shelters.
In 2008, the Supreme Court opened an office
on domestic violence, staffed by over 70
employees. In four months it received more
than 2,000 calls, 86 percent of which were
from women.
A similar service has begun to be organised
in the provinces, under the authority of the
highest court in each district.
"In the homes, which provide a temporary
solution for women who have no social
protection network, they receive support to
gradually get back into education and work.
Many of them have children attending school,
and there are teenage mothers, as well as
pregnant victims of sexual violence," said
Stegman.
In her view, the costs to the state in
Argentina and other countries in the region
could be brought down with greater
prevention efforts and heightened awareness
regarding the extent of the problem on the
part of the authorities, institutions and
society as a whole.
"We need a major cultural change, starting
with education. We have women who have
returned to the system up to three times
because of violence, and this phenomenon has
a multiplying effect on the children," she
said.
As UNIFEM’s Falú says, violence against
women "is not a private problem."
"It is not just a concern for women, but for
society as a whole, for democratic systems
everywhere; it is a key development issue,"
she said, which is why precise estimates of
the economic cost of domestic violence are
so urgently needed.
Measuring the impact
The World Bank report "Addressing
Gender-Based Violence in Latin America and
the Caribbean" says it is necessary to gauge
the economic impact in order to gain a true
understanding of the magnitude of the
problem and determine its relative
importance within the spate of problems
facing development.
In Colombia, for example, the state spends
74 million dollars a year in assistance for
mistreated women.
The Inter-American Development Bank (IDB)
estimates that the cost of violence against
women ranges between 1.3 percent and five
percent of GDP in the region overall.
"El costo del silencio. Violencia doméstica
en las Américas" (The Cost of Silence;
Domestic Violence in the Americas), an IDB
study, said women victims of domestic
violence have lower overall incomes than
other women, which represents a regional
loss in terms of wages of between 1.6 and
two percent.
In statements made in Venezuela, which she
visited during the first week of March,
Winnie Byanyima from Uganda, the director of
the UNDP gender team, illustrated the
problem by pointing out that in just one
year, more than four billion dollars were
spent in the United States on medical
expenses and medical or mental treatment for
the victims of domestic violence.
|